Arnold Schwarzenegger Calls Cheating on Maria Shriver 'Stupidest Thing'

September 28, 2012 Celebrity Books

Actor Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted to “60 Minutes” that cheating on Maria Shriver with housekeeper Mildred Baena was the “stupidest thing” he’d ever done to his former wife.

Arnold Schwarzenegger Calls Cheating on Maria Shriver 'Stupidest Thing'
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"I think it was the stupidest thing I've done in the whole relationship. It was terrible. I inflicted tremendous pain on Maria and unbelievable pain on the kids," Schwarzenegger said.

Schwarzenegger, who has a son with Baena, is currently promoting an explosive tell-all book called “Total Recall." Shriver has not commented on the book, and the former governor of California said she has not read it.

Arnold told “60 Minutes,” "She knows that it's about my whole life and that I would not write a book and kind of leave out that part and make people feel like, 'Well, wait a minute. Are we just getting a book about his success stories and not talk about his failures?' ... I wanted to write a book about me."

“Total Recall” reveals further details about his infidelity, including how Shriver confronted him about the cheating.

Maria waited until the day after Arnold left his post as California governor in January 2011 to ask him about the affair in couple’s therapy.

He writes, “The minute we sat down, the therapist turned to me and said, ‘Maria wanted to come here today and to ask about a child -- whether you fathered a child with your housekeeper Mildred.”

“I told the therapist, ‘It’s true,’” Schwarzenegger describes in the memoir.

According to the Daily Mail, Arnold later delves into the fling with Baena. The pair had sex in 1996 in the guesthouse of his Pacific Palisades estate while Maria and the kids were on vacation. The actor was filming “Batman & Robin” at the time.

When Joseph was born, Baena put her husband’s name on the birth certificate. Arnold “wanted” to believe that was the truth. The 65-year-old kept the housekeeper on staff to help “control the situation,” but Maria eventually saw the resemblance and confronted him several years ago. He denied it at the time.

Once the truth was out, the “Robocop” star admitted to the “screwup” and tried to salvage the relationship by groveling and trying to convince her that she still turned him on. He knows now that he should have revealed the secret years ago.

Arnold says, “But instead of doing the right thing, I’d just put the truth in a mental compartment and locked it up where I didn’t deal with it every day.” The former Governor gave several reasons why he wanted to keep the story under wraps, including not wanting to tell Maria, 56, and her famous family -- the Kennedys.

“Total Recall: My Unbelievably True Life Story” hits bookstores October 1.

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Jamez Wigginz
232 days ago

In honor of Arnold’s latest sexcess…

1. Oktober, 2012

Dear Mister Editer;

(Please acuse my Englisch. I only ben in Kountry tirty years or sew.)
I hope dat all Ahnold sopproters allow di great Austrian to speak about his new Booch, My SpeziaI inzidentals Life,oder something like dis. What a super mensch! Sure. Sure. So he was acuse of groping sum butiful woman. And smoked a few mariauana Zigaretten. (At least he admits to de crimes.) And he poked the prison Nazis in de back mit de Kontrakt mess from, how do you say, Meisterburger Grau Davis. Like a strong man dat he is, Ahnold rose above de propaganda. Ahnold is kein girlie man. In de fact, he gave Kalifornea de enema it needed. And stuff de borders mit sauerkraut – not refied beens. Nicht mehr Illegible immigrents! (Gott – dis dumbkopf keybored.)

In my lands, years ago, Kings ran alles. No butty had to worry about spending too much monies hier and der. Once de gravy train, as yous say dis, was gone, the schweinhunds just raised tax! To hell mit gibbing lawmen of Sacremento in capitol building power to spend die citizens dollars. They act two much like kings of olds. One man. Ahnold. He tried to fix de money supply, but got caught mit ein maedchen. Achh! Like Gott, Ahnold giveth and taketh away. (Bibelworts.) Now here in Kalifornea and Amerika, too much peoples on welfare dis and foodstamps dat. Ach du lieber. What dis EBT? Give me a crack! Tank Gott Ahnold wants to show dem hoose de leader of my state and cut diese Schweine into kleine Wienerschnitzel.

Like in de olden Tage, unions war bad. Why should sie be able to help pass laws for working peoples? Didn’t anybody’s see de truth story film chitty chitty bang bang? Someones has to follow orders. Ahnold took die schnitzel by the hand and led to triumph.

I’m sorry but cant remember alles. Trust me Kaliforneans. Ahnold has yer back – no matters. And tank you mister editer for dis chance to speak both of my mind.

Kaliforneans – will you not join Ahnold and celebrate his grossest ding to date? (His booch of some title mentioned above.) Read his booch. Make Kalifornea strength again.

Es tut mir leid dis letter took so long. Ich wrote as fast as possibly.

Highly Regards,

Dr. Georg Hinsbetter
Anudder one of some proud Austrians

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Jamez Wigginz
232 days ago

In honor of Arnold’s latest sexcess…

1. Oktober, 2012

Dear Mister Editer;

(Please acuse my Englisch. I only ben in Kountry tirty years or sew.)
I hope dat all Ahnold sopproters allow di great Austrian to speak about his new Booch, My SpeziaI inzidentals Life,oder something like dis. What a super mensch! Sure. Sure. So he was acuse of groping sum butiful woman. And smoked a few mariauana Zigaretten. (At least he admits to de crimes.) And he poked the prison Nazis in de back mit de Kontrakt mess from, how do you say, Meisterburger Grau Davis. Like a strong man dat he is, Ahnold rose above de propaganda. Ahnold is kein girlie man. In de fact, he gave Kalifornea de enema it needed. And stuff de borders mit sauerkraut – not refied beens. Nicht mehr Illegible immigrents! (Gott – dis dumbkopf keybored.)

In my lands, years ago, Kings ran alles. No butty had to worry about spending too much monies hier and der. Once de gravy train, as yous say dis, was gone, the schweinhunds just raised tax! To hell mit gibbing lawmen of Sacremento in capitol building power to spend die citizens dollars. They act two much like kings of olds. One man. Ahnold. He tried to fix de money supply, but got caught mit ein maedchen. Achh! Like Gott, Ahnold giveth and taketh away. (Bibelworts.) Now here in Kalifornea and Amerika, too much peoples on welfare dis and foodstamps dat. Ach du lieber. What dis EBT? Give me a crack! Tank Gott Ahnold wants to show dem hoose de leader of my state and cut diese Schweine into kleine Wienerschnitzel.

Like in de olden Tage, unions war bad. Why should sie be able to help pass laws for working peoples? Didn’t anybody’s see de truth story film chitty chitty bang bang? Someones has to follow orders. Ahnold took die schnitzel by the hand and led to triumph.

I’m sorry but cant remember alles. Trust me Kaliforneans. Ahnold has yer back – no matters. And tank you mister editer for dis chance to speak both of my mind.

Kaliforneans – will you not join Ahnold and celebrate his grossest ding to date? (His booch of some title mentioned above.) Read his booch. Make Kalifornea strength again.

Es tut mir leid dis letter took so long. Ich wrote as fast as possibly.

Highly Regards,

Dr. Georg Hinsbetter
Anudder one of some proud Austrians

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FEFE
233 days ago

You know whats worse? that he lied all these years to Maria or maybe not, maybe she did know and for the sake of his political situation and hers, it was best to keep it under wraps...I think this Mildred bitch got tired of her and her son being their dirty little secret....probably told them she was gonna blow the whistle on them or maybe she threatened to extort money...

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VR
233 days ago

Schwarzenegger was never in RoboCop. Who does the fact checking around here??

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louisemccloud@yahoo.com
233 days ago

Gee Arnold, you think?? Arnold had a beautiful, loving, caring, faithful, intelligent wife, she gave up her career as a Journalist when he became Governor, Maria gave Arnold 4 wonderful, beautiful children and he cheats on her with the "maid" and doesn't even have sense enough to use protection, so guess what on top of infidelity theirs a baby and at the same time Maria was expecting at that. Stupid is putting it mildly. How did he ever become Governor anyway? oh, I know, Maria Shriver his faithful, wonderful, gorgeous wife who believed in him and gave up her life, her career, to help him with his career.

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FEFE
233 days ago

The word "stupid" doesn't fully do it for me....it's more than stupid...to be honest I don't think there is really a word to describe what he did....

Porking the maid...what a cliche'....its difficult to process no matter which way you slice it...

Maybe I COULD HAVE wrapped my head around this if she was young and beautiful...but this women is ugly,overweight and THE MAID!! HELLO!!

Then he impregnates this ugly wench around the same time he impregnates his wife....can you say CONDOMS!!

This guys gotta be kidding me?

I hope he was drunk or drugged by this woman cus that would be the only rational excuse that I could come up with for him.

I am sorry to say it but these Latina, third world maids come to the US to steel our men...ARNOLD YOU ARE AN IDIOT TO THE FIFTH POWER..YOU DESTROYED YOU'RE REPUTATION,MARRIAGE, YOU COMPROMISED YOU'RE CHILDRENS WELL BEING, FOR THAT UGLY THING?...SHE MUST SUCK A MEAN #$&% YOU KNOW WHAT....

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